About Tammy
Tammy is a compassionate psychotherapist, author, and the founder of Paraklesis Counseling.
Tammy Allen is the founder and owner of Paraklesis Counseling. She believes the goal of therapy isn't simply symptom relief; it's helping people understand themselves well enough to create lasting change. Whether she's helping someone heal from trauma, navigate anxiety, strengthen a relationship, or move through a major life transition, Tammy's focus remains the same: helping clients make meaning of their experiences so they can move forward with greater understanding, intention, confidence, and peace.
Her approach blends warmth, authenticity, and practical insight. Tammy believes one of the kindest things a therapist can do is speak truth with compassion. She describes her style as "carefrontational," creating a space where clients feel genuinely seen, accepted, and also safe enough to hear hard truths, challenge old patterns, and discover healthier ways of living. She believes growth requires honesty, and yes... she'll call you on your 'bull' if it's keeping you stuck, but only because she cares too much not to. She'll do it with compassion, respect, and a genuine desire to help you see what you may not yet be able to see for yourself. Her clients often describe her as refreshingly direct, deeply caring, and someone with an uncanny ability to recognize patterns that suddenly make life make sense. Around here, clarity isn't criticism; it's an act of caring.
Tammy works with older adolescents, adults, and couples, with particular interests in anxiety, trauma, ADHD, relationship concerns, grief, self-esteem, life transitions, women's mental health, perimenopause/menopause, and first responder wellness. She utilizes an integrative holistic approach tailored to each client, drawing from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), EMDR, psychodynamic therapy, mindfulness-based interventions, attachment theory, Gottman Method principles, Imago Relationship Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Logotherapy. A lifelong student of human behavior, Tammy loves helping clients understand the connection between the brain, emotions, relationships, and behavior, because understanding replaces shame with curiosity, and curiosity opens the door to healing and meaningful change.
Born into a Navy family, Tammy had the opportunity to live all over the world while growing up, but Texas has always been home. Today she lives in Houston with her husband and their ever-growing collection of rescue animals. Together, they share two grown children and two beautiful grandchildren who keep life joyful and interesting. Outside the therapy office, Tammy enjoys cooking, writing, Bible study, learning just about anything related to psychology or neuroscience, spending time with family and friends, and helping people discover who they are beneath life's hardships so they can live with greater purpose, intention, authenticity, and hope.